MAKING YOUR LIFE
USEFUL
Pursue Pleasure at Your Peril
James 4:1-12
Jerry A Collins
SCC
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Is
pride ever appropriate for a believer?
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What
does pleasure seeking reveal about what we desire?
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Why
is humility the remedy that God requires for the proud?
None of us is surprised to discover that there are wars,
fights, and quarrels even amongst believers. We have even gotten caught in the
crosshairs of such experiences ourselves. It is not a pretty picture and
unfortunately does not even startle us when it happens. Perhaps James
deliberately chose the phrase be slow to
anger in vs
OUR PRIDEFUL PURSUIT
OF PLEASURE CAUSES CONFLICT
1. The source of our
quarrels is our pleasures v1. The question is where do these quarrels among us come
from? The answer: from your desires for
pleasure. These desires for pleasure he says wage a campaign within us—that
is in our members. The same thing Paul said is Romans 7:23. Now not all
pleasure is evil but the pursuit of pleasure in this context is. These
pleasures are the kind connected to the world’s philosophy of happiness vss 3-4. God will not enter into your pursuit of worldly
pleasure. That kind of pleasure only promotes conflict and divisiveness. James
tells us that the pleasure ethic of the world will always bring quarreling. Any
place where you pursue pleasure you will have quarrels. If you want pleasure
from church, from your mate, your parents, your children, or from your car, or
job, you will have quarrels. The world only has limited resources for you to
compete for and so you can never be satisfied. Your mate will disappoint you.
Your children may use you. Your car will rust. Your body gets old. With only
limited resources available from the world to make us happy we try to win at
the expense of someone else. So we become discontent, frustrated, competitive, and
angry. Our desires to attain something pit us against one another.
2. What we want is
out of reach v2.
We go on lusting to attain the pleasure we want but it is ever out of reach (Picture: Bonus, bigger house, healthy body,
name recognition). We then become envious and we quarrel—we commit murder.
Just as Christ said and John declared whoever
hates his brother is a murderer 1 J 3:15. Our jealous hostility toward one
another James says is a murderous spirit. All that is left is bro to bro
conflict—we fight and quarrel. So we turn the church into a battlefield. Worse
still, we do not turn to God to meet our needs—we do not have because we do not ask. We cannot let God determine
whether my desire for something is in my best interests or not, and is the
reason for so much prayerlessness—what if
this is not what God wants for me even tho I want it
so badly? So, we have a problem with one another—quarreling over limited
resources to assuage our pleasure pursuit—and a problem with God because I
cannot trust Him for my best interests—resulting in prayerlessness. One reason
why you stop praying is because when you prayed for something you were
particularly interested in, God did not come thru in a way you perceived that He
agreed with you, and you stopped praying. On the other hand…..
3. Prayer will not
help v3 when you
do bring God into it, prayer will not help because your motive for praying is
selfish. You ask badly and prayer is not for the purpose of pursuing your
pleasures with God’s help. God will not give you what will cause quarrels.
4. You commit
spiritual adultery to have your pleasure v4-5. So you become friends with the
world because the world will give you pleasure. James had already warned us to keep oneself unspotted from the world
OUR HUMBLE
SUBMISSION TO GOD GIVES
1. This grace is
inexhaustible v 6. There
is no need to compete for grace because it is a limitless resource. God never
runs out of grace, never exhausts it’s supply, He always has more to give. The
arrogant should not expect any—only judgment—but to the humble He makes it
abundantly available. This grace is in the form of whatever it is you truly
need—God sees to it that you are supplied. Our problem is letting God determine
what it is we need when we think we know what that is. No one will ever be
proud of something in heaven. Pride leaves God out and promotes independence
and autonomy. It is Satan’s lie to us and we believe it. None of us is
independent of God. Pride assumes you have achieved it and Pride is never good
for any reason. Humility assumes it is a gift from God and always realistically
remembers God as part of the equation.
2. Repenting is the
cure for one pursuing worldly pleasure 7-10. He commands the following steps:
(1) Begin with
submission to God 7.
The cure for conflict is vertical not horizontal. When you are the cause of
quarrels, you have a problem with God and the needs to be attended to first. (2) Resist the devil. He will flee from
you. He is not invincible and His attempts to throttle you comes form the
allurement the world offers to you. (3)
Draw near to God v8 and He will reciprocate with tokens of His nearness. (4) This is done by confession of sin
and then cleansing hand from sin, purifying your hearts from double-minded
mentality. Get the world out of your system. This is how you draw near to God. (5) Be miserable,
mourn and weep as you deal with your sin. It is a serious matter to attend
to. It is not a time for frivolously admitting wrong and going on your way but
understanding the depth of your wickedness in God’s site while pursuing the contaminated
ways of the world v9. (6) The objective
is to ultimately humble ourselves in His presence—that is within our spirit
and heart. While you make yourself low God promises to lift you high. God will
certainly repay humiliation with exaltation in His time and choosing. In other
words, God obligates Himself to meet your needs and serve your best interests.
And He determines those needs and those interests. Instead of proudly setting
yourself against God by worldly pursuits of pleasure, humble yourself
& He will take care of you.
1. Don’t ever pursue the world’s
philosophies, allurements, or solutions to meet your needs. It will get you in
trouble with God.
2. Recognize God as the source of
all you need and repent every time you forget that to be true.